Together, we safely navigate the space between.
I coach couples who are at a pivotal point in their relationships, and who are willing to take a deep dive into their own personal patterns on behalf of their relationship. This can be scary to think about, often because we think we have to be in crisis in order to receive help. Maybe your relationship is on fire in the worst way, or maybe you want to light it on fire in the best way, creating more intimacy and connection! I'm here to help you navigate the next steps toward greater connection.
Your relationship may have high tendencies of blame, miscommunication and misunderstanding, volatility, and disappointment. You may be going round and round about the same issues with your partner. You love them, but don't see how this can possibly work.
There is opportunity in everything. Whether you are growing together, or consciously separating, there is opportunity to grow in personal integrity, develop communication skills, decrease stress levels in the nervous system, increase peace and connection, and to embody forgiveness and compassion.
When mindful tools (such as observation, heart-centered compassion, emotional awareness, conscious communication) are applied to relationships, a lot can happen, because each person is more emotionally regulated! You need to learn to genuinely calm and care for yourself before you can learn to successfully communicate and get your needs met.
I have a map for this.
We start with independent, parallel coaching where each member of the partnership learns to recognize patterns. In this way, we avoid finger pointing and move toward compassion more easily. We then move into practicing needs-based communication, non-judgement, forgiveness, and mirroring concepts. The result is a powerful connection you've not experienced in quite some time... or ever.
These tools will evolve your relationship. And you.
As a couple's coach, I combine archetypal principles of masculine/feminine dynamics and my ability to see the whole picture, and I provide a deep-level analysis and reflection. All of my coaching is responsive and specific to each couple’s needs. I sit with you as you practice these new skills and integrate them into your relationship.
Your relationship becomes more conscious and connected as a result of our combined efforts. When you temper your old habits of anger and resentment, it is possible to see your partner through a renewed lens of love.
If you and your partner are mutually willing to allow my guidance, I will go to the difficult places with you in a way that few others ever would. Honoring that relationships are sacred, that children are often involved, and that much is at stake, I coach couples with fairness, clarity, and reverence. Your relationship matters, and before there is more divisiveness, contact me.
My couple's program is twelve weeks, with a commitment made up front. I coach each of you and your relationship. You let me IN, and as you allow yourself to trust me and the process, you experience healing, freedom, clarity, and connection.
A consult is required for this work. I look forward to meeting you.
Let's get started.
Private 2-day retreats in a neutral, private mountain retreat home are available now. See Retreats Page. Send me a private email to discuss or set up a consultation. This can be in addition to my remote couples work, or stand alone.
*While I am very interested in working with the archetypal notions of masculine & feminine, I do not discriminate whatsoever with any client, individual or couple, based on gender, sexual preference, or identification with any binary. I work with humans and the human soul.