We live in a world where it is said that men have the privilege, but so many men are silently hurting. Seven out of ten suicides in the US are committed by white males, and most of them middle class. Our men are suffering, and it's not often safe for them to be honest about this.
In an era where men are often shamed for being men, I am here to advocate for a different way.
Because men are beautiful. And we need men.
I say this with an open heart. It’s a heart with a personal history - because I’ve been hurt by men and I’ve been in failed relationships with men. But I’ve also healed with and been healed by men, I’ve heard the true stories of the hearts of men, I’ve seen men deny themselves and their personal truths, and I’ve seen and felt the discord between men and women in our current culture (see blog).
I don’t have an agenda that you “be” anything other than what you truly want to be. I’m not here to feminize or further shame you.
I’m aware that what I’m offering is quite different than anything you’ve been used to. Schedule an intro call with me to discuss further.
This is an offering of love, of space holding. I offer to see the beauty in you. I offer to hold you accountable to what you want to create and accomplish, but I won’t tell you how to do it.
In order to accept this offer from a woman, you need to be a man on a path of self awareness. My male clients are almost always engaging in men’s work as well. This is imperative. Women can do one type of work with men, and men need to do men’s work with other men. This has to do with the lack of initiation practices in our culture.
I am a life coach of sorts and have many skills to teach, should you need them. I hold space for the human soul to emerge. I work with archetypal masculine and feminine energies and I integrate that into our conversations. And we work toward your own personal goals. Maybe you want to stop a pattern in a relationship, or grow your business but really lack the confidence you're feeling pressured to show. We can work through anything.
But here’s what I really do - I see you. I see YOU for you. I see YOU like you've not really been seen. And then I support you with honesty and integrity. These are my superpowers.
I see that there's this era of "Me Too" and the “feminine rising,” and there's a lot of confusion for men around how to respond and fit into that. I see that you're simultaneously craving and cursing women. I see that for many of you, it started with your mothers. I see that you are quieted by overpowering women, maybe even just as frequently or more than you are overpowering them. I see that there are not places for these conversations - and I hope to be someone who can invite a change where that is concerned.
I see you, your potential, and what you want the world to see in you. And then, I support you maybe more deeply than you’ve ever been supported.
This is healing opportunity of the deepest sort.
We do this together. It’s transformative. The relationship is pure and heart-centered, but I see it as a truly sacred responsibility, as when you invite me into your life as your support, I know that you are ready to truly transform. And I meet you there, woman to man, and you stand in your own reflection of your own greatness.
It is a beautiful thing to witness.
This is new. This is different. This is safe.
Reach out when you’re ready. Truly ready. You didn’t come to mess around, and I didn’t either.
Testimonials from male clients:
“I wasn't 100% convinced that it was working while we were doing it, but you know what--it absolutely worked! Since then, I have felt remarkably free from the stress, anxiety, and fear that were destructively powerful inside of me. That's what Sarah does--she brings her tool basket and her passionate, intuitive self and then gives the very best of her amazing self to help resolve the MOST IMPORTANT blocks that keep one from living a more beautiful life. Not the surface stuff, but the stuff at the core of your being. If you don't want to face that stuff NOW, look elsewhere. Go to someone that will just listen to you talk and talk. But if you want to get there NOW, then Sarah is a great guide for this process.”
“I hired Sarah for her 6-week, 3-call engagement--and I didn't really know why... Except that in this time of escalating cultural turbulence and war between men and women, between right and left, between traditional and progressive, I've rarely encountered people standing boldly and unapologetically both women and men simultaneously. Typically I see people take a position rooted in their fears and bias, a position that makes clear whose side you're on and whose side you're not on (for example, being For women, and to hell with men, because they've had their time in power and have messed it up). Sarah's posts on Facebook caught my eye again and again as I witnessed her stand for the full power, freedom, expression and dignity of both women and men, taking no side and leaving no one out. I was inspired seeing her continually call men and women (herself included) to rise up, to be more, and stand for ourselves and each other in a bigger way. I felt a deep resonance with her as this also what I aim to do and how I aim to be. I felt in a way that I had found a long-lost sister. The time, energy and money I invested with Sarah was well worth it, and I'm glad I chose to trust my inner calling to work with her. I support who she is in the world, and encourage anyone who feels called to work with her to do so. You're in good hands.”